Urban Outfitters sweater | Vintage skirt | Cape Robbin mules | Tassel Earrings
It’s so easy to get stuck in the trap of new-ness. The online influencer culture and the sheer accessibility of being able to buy anything at any time put me in a constant state of wanting. God forbid, I’m greeted by a bare doorstep at the end of the day. Having a package delivered daily has become the new norm.
All too often, I go through my wardrobe and linger on that one piece I’ve tried on 10 times but never worn (I know we all have one). Every time, I’m like, damnit. Why did I buy this? What did I even see in it? I realize I’ve yet again fallen victim to thrill shopping. Buying it because it is new , not because it’s good.
Ya’ll know how it goes, right? You have to get something new to prove you’re a new person, because you certainly aren’t who you were before. I need a new rusty metallic sweater and then I’ll be ahead of the trend. Need a new pair of jeans because my old ones aren’t quite the right leg shape and don’t suit me anymore. I need a new planner to organize my new life because I am sure as hell not the same hot mess I was a day ago. I have new things, therefore I AM NEW.
It’s so silly. New isn’t always better. I am trying to break the cycle. Instead of buying more and more and more, I am challenging myself to get creative with the pieces I already have and love. Isn’t that the point of style anyway? It’s not what you wear but how you wear it. My *new* mantra!
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yas yas yas! love this. just today, i styled pieces i’ve had for a while and LOVED the look so so much. new is exciting, but making new looks from old pieces is even better. 🙂
Totally! I love those pieces that LAST in your closet!