Millennial pink, the ubiquitous color of this generation. I needn’t tell you that this color is everywhere. You need only have eyes to realize we’re up to our necks with this illustrious color. It has become clear that this isn’t your average color trend. The phenomenon has well outlived the typical staying power of such a trend, and as we near 2017, I have a feeling we are in for another pink year.
Don’t misunderstand me, I get it. The craze over the cutesy hue is not lost on me. Glossier ads often have me reaching for my wallet and I swoon at the thought of Sketch‘s rosy quartz interior. What is it about Millennial Pink that we are all infatuated with? Is it because we’ve used it as a symbol to reclaim our femininity? Because it has been accepted by all, furthering the gender-neutral movement in fashion? Or is it more superficial than that… is it just popular?
Whatever the case, it is evident that this soft-as-a-feather shade is going to stick around for a while. And while I accept this fully, I can’t help but crave some variety. As more and more products and brands stain themselves pink, it starts to lose its impact. Like saying a word over and over. I’m ready to add some new colors to the mix.
Enter: Dusty periwinkle and misty blue. After receiving a drool-worthy bag from Sezane in the mail, I really just could not get over the color of the box it was packaged in. And the color of this fur is absolutely speaking to me. They have the same essence of Millennial Pink but without the oversaturation – figuratively, not literally of course. The perfect complimentary hues to the color of the generation!
Can you believe it is already December? Like, what??
As some of you know, I am starting a new series on here where I share some new and old music that’s been getting a lot of playtime in my world. Subscribe, and it will be automatically updated each month, much like the Discover Weekly playlist. Hope yall enjoy!
This year, Rob and I took our first big trip together. Deciding on Hawaii was an easy decision. Growing up, my family went there every Christmas and so I fell in love with the islands early on. I had been pestering Rob for years (and continue to pester him almost daily) that “we should just move there for a year.” Of course, my bubble gets popped pretty quickly when I think of the actual logistics of making that happen and what it would entail, BUT nonetheless, I just wanted Rob to experience Hawaii and be as much in love with it as I was.
I started doing a little research to see if it would be a feasible option. I put together some numbers and had a full plan created to show him that we could, in fact, afford to go to Hawaii. Does anyone else do this with their S/Os? I’m all for setting yourself up for a YES when you go to make the ask.
So, here is how we managed a 9-day trip to Hawaii for less than $2,500, including airfare, rental cars and lodging.
Sandy Beach – almost got sucked into a current after this photo despite being a fantastic swimmer!
First off, there are things I am cool with dropping some money on and things I am not. Airfare is one of those things. It is massively expensive, ends up eating up most the budget, and is rarely an enjoyable experience. I detest paying for flights if I can help it. Instead, we use airline award miles. For this trip, we used miles earned from Citi AAdvantage sign up bonuses and ended up paying $11 and some change each for our flights. The flights we took would have cost us over $900 a person, so right there, we saved $1,800.
Hanauma Bay – excellent fishies
We flew into Honolulu and then island jumped over to the Big Island for the remainder of our trip. We knew we would need a rental car for both islands. Honolulu has public transit, but it is tedious and expensive, and we knew we would prefer to have the freedom of having our own car. There’s no way to get around needing a rental car on the Big Island. For the first one, we paid for the lowest grade car out of pocket, but got upgraded to a convertible, which definitely helps sweeten the deal! For the second one, we definitely wanted to have a convertible the whole time and were able to use points from the Capital One Venture Card to avoid paying for that.
A quick note here: If you’re renting a car in Hawaii, get a convertible. We were so happy we did! One of my favorite memories of the trip is being stuck in traffic along the coast, singing at the top of our lungs to early 00’s love songs. Seriously, we were driving ALL OVER the Big Island, and the convertible made it an experience as opposed to a drive.
RENTAL CAR 1: $78
RENTAL CAR 2: $0
Rainbow Falls – that monstera!
I mentioned that we island hopped. We used Hawaiian Airlines for those flights, and just paid out of pocket as they were relatively cheap… and we were out of miles. 🙂
INTER-ISLAND FLIGHTS: $344
Black Sand Beach and Lily Pond
Since we were looking for on-the-cheap lodging options, we opted to use Airbnb in lieu of a resort, which turned out to be a great decision! In Honolulu, not going to lie, the place we picked was very much a crash pad. But it was in the middle of the city, had a pretty view and we were only there 2 nights. Funny enough, they were filming Hawaii 5-0 right outside the apartment, which was fun to watch!
The second place we stayed was really the highlight of the three Airbnbs we stayed in. Called Namaste Estates, it was a yurt in the middle of the rainforest with meditation trails, the biggest fiddle leaf fig I’ve ever seen and a dog named Mango. It felt like such an adventure! And, it was only $65 a night.
Last, we stayed in Kona, which was probably the most touristy destination of our trip, but still a lot of fun. Next time, we will probably skip Kona, and spend more time on Oahu.
Right below Mauna Kea Observatory – star gazing galore
TOTAL AIRFARE, CARS & LODGING: $1,410
So that was the bulk of our expenses! There were a few times we splurged, however. We treated ourselves to a spa day ($400) and wanted to go on a boat ride to see dolphins ($320), but other than that kept everything relatively lowkey.
We pretty much lived off of acai bowls and sushi while we were there, and of course, there were some other expenses like gas, parking and entrance to state parks but that didn’t add up to a whole lot. For souvenirs, I like to stick to postcards and pins, so we made sure to pick up a few everywhere we went.
Since our trip to Hawaii, I’ve gone even deeper down the rabbit hole that is the world of travel hacking. I find it fascinating! If you don’t know what travel hacking is, it is the art of optimizing credit card sign up bonuses and frequent flier miles to get free airfare, hotels and tours and more. Over the past year, Rob and I have used credit cards to pay our rent and our bills (i.e. stuff we would pay for anyway) to rack up miles and points. Nomadic Matt, The Points Guy and Zero to Travel are all great travel hacking blogs to check out, and I also highly recommend this crash course on Udemy.
Vintage sweater | Vintage Levi’s | Vintage belt | Alexander Wang bag | Nine West boots
Cyber week is upon us yall, and it’s time to do some serious shopping. I have a bad habit of using this weekend to buy for myself, and not so much for the people I actually get presents for, but I’m probably not the only one. Over the years, I’ve picked up a few expert tips and tricks to make sure I get most out of Black Friday / Cyber Monday / etc. Obviously, tip #1 is STAY AT HOME. Home is the only sensible place to be, come Black Friday. Ideally, with a spiced drink in hand and fuzzy socks on your feet. So, there’s never been a better time to brush up on your online shopping skills and score some savvy deals.
Befriend your bookmarks! Though many websites advertise their sales before the fact, a lot do not. I like to bookmark the items I am lusting over and check it periodically to see if there is a deal at some point during the weekend.
This doesn’t work for all websites, but you can also try to add items to your cart throughout the week when you’re doing some pre-hunting. When it’s go-time, all you have to do is press that BUY button.
Screenshot your order confirmation just in case. Some websites get really flooded and things happen. You don’t want to be in a “we lost your order” situation.
Check the return policy before you complete your purchase. Some sites only offer store credits and returns for purchases made on Black Friday or Cyber Monday.
Don’t overdo it. It’s easy to get lost in your budget when you’re shopping online, so just be mindful of what you’re spending.
So without further ado, here’s every sale and promo code you’ll ever need:
Body positive: It’s a lot easier to say you are than actually be.
As a stylist for the everyday woman, I hear all sorts of small digs women make about themselves.
“These pants were so cute… and then I put them on.”
“This was too small (insert weight loss joke here).”
“I love horizontal stripes on other women but would NEVER wear them.”
And I get it. Insecurities are those little jabs we all give ourselves that stop us from making the sartorial choices we normally would.
I try wide leg pants once a year just to remember, oh yeah, these just do not work on me. And those girls who flit around the internet claiming slip dresses to be the most effortless of outfits? It’s never gonna happen for me! They hug my curves in all the wrong places and a bra-less me is just too risky a move.
And while those two styles (that I love on other people) will still forever be on my “do not fuck with” list, I’ve been wondering if I avoid them because of how I look in them, or because of how they make me feel.
As women, we’ve been instilled with the notion that dressing for your body type is top priority when picking what you wear. We grew up with shows like What Not to Wear that berated women who had any sort of creative style (didn’t you always hate the after?) and magazine articles on how to identify your body type and how to ABSOLUTELY AVOID styles that wouldn’t flatter aforementioned body type. Preference was secondary.
Don’t you think this mentality puts too much control in the hands of other people of how you look?
Fashion should be about what makes you feel confident, sexy, weird, unique, or whatever it is you feel like feeling. And that can mean dressing for your body type, but it certainly doesn’t have to.